Mentor a Girl, Change Your World

April 12th event promotes sisterhood and positive female relationships

 

TROY, Mich. – Hate and Envy seem to have become the new “it” girls as evident with the popularity of reality shows depicting female drama and cat fights. While some are cashing in on the drama, others are encouraging positive and empowering relationships among girls and women.

 

On Thursday, April 12, the Oakland/Macomb Chapter of the National Organization for Women will present “Mentor a girl – Change your world,” a program highlighting the benefits of mentoring and personal real-life role modeling.

 

This program is specific to women mentoring girls and will discuss how to make mentoring fit to a busy lifestyle and the compelling reasons why mentoring is so important in today’s world.

 

Guest speakers include Paula Dirkes, author of “Mentor Me: The Complete Guide for Women who want to Mentor Girls,” who will discuss how to incorporate mentoring into your existing lifestyle and Rasheda Kamaria, founder of Empowered Flower Girl LLC, who will discuss the importance of inspiring sisterhood in an age of bad girls, housewives and frenemies.

 

The event will take place at the Troy Community Center, 3179 Livernois in Troy, Mich. Doors open at 6:30 p.m. and the program begins at 7 p.m.  Admission is free, but donations will be accepted.  Attendees must RSVP by Friday, April 6 via email to oaklandcountynow@gmail.com.

 

 

Empowered Flower Girl Workshops for Schools & Communities

Booking spring and summer workshops!

Rasheda speaks with Communicating with Confidence workshop participant.

Empowered Flower Girl Chief Empowering Officer Rasheda Kamaria invites schools and community organizations throughout southeast Michigan and beyond to book an empowering workshop this school year.

Kamaria delivers engaging content that inspires youth, teachers, parents and the community. From workshops combating teasing, cyberbullying and drama, to programs encouraging goal-setting and career exploration, Empowered Flower Girl can helps schools and organizations address critical social issues in a way that empowers and entertains.

 

Workshops include:

  • Chica Chat – Empowered Flower Girl’s most popular workshop which fosters positive and empowering relationships among girls and young women. The two-hour program ultimately aims to combat teasing cyberbullying, girl drama and cliques. Participants have the opportunity to be self expressed, heard and understood by their peers and adult mentors in a supportive, safe and accepting environment.  Activities challenge stereotypes and “mean girl” behavior.
  • Goal Setting through Vision Boards – This workshop takes arts and crafts time to a new level. Participants learn the art of positive thinking and visualization as a method of goal setting. Each participant leaves with a vision board.
  • Communicating with Confidence –Teens learn new and effective ways to communicate with diverse audiences including the general public, potential funders and the media. The interactive workshop includes networking, mock interviews and an impromptu “talk show” culminating the training.

 

Empowered Flower Girl workshops are cost-effective for schools and nonprofits and are offered for as little at $5-10 per participant. As a social venture, Empowered Flower Girl is dedicated to supporting the community and gives back 25% of all merchandise sales to schools and organizations during cause campaigns throughout the year.

For more information or to book your workshop, email rkamaria@empoweredflowergirl.com or call 248-629-0334.

“The Communicating with Confidence workshop was fun, informative and engaging.  The girls really enjoyed the hands-on activities.  We received such positive feedback from the girls.  This was a learning experience they will truly remember.” Tonya Weary, Founder of Young Entrepreneurs Series

 

Empowered Flower Girl to co-sponsor FREE mentoring appreciation event in Warren, Mich.

Inspired to mentor or looking for opportunities to mentor?

 

Join Empowered Flower Girl and Michigan author Paula Dirkes for a FREE Mentor Appreciation Event & Mentor Me! Book Launch Party on Tuesday, Jan. 24, 2012 from 5:30 – 7:30 p.m. at Renaissance Unity Church, 11200 E. Eleven Mile Road in Warren, Mich.

The event will include networking, mentor/mentee success stories, giveaways, light refreshments, mentoring resources and book signing. RSVP at mentormebooklaunch@gmail.com.

Check out Paula discussing why she mentors and why she wrote her inspirational book.

 

ABOUT AUTHOR PAULA DIRKES

Paula Dirkes earned her BS degree in secondary education from Michigan State University and her MA degree in Human Performance Improvement from the University of Michigan. She has taught and coached junior high school students in Lansing, Michigan and worked with infants through college students as the Youth & Aquatic Director at the Lansing Central YMCA. She has worked in secondary schools, corporate health promotion and in the healthcare industry for the majority of her career when working with adults.

Since 2001 she has been an active community-based mentor to Chelsea McKinney, a faith-based mentor for 12-18 year old boys and girls at Renaissance Unity church in Warren, Michigan, a school-based mentor/coach in the ‘Teen Leadership’ program at Hazel Park High School, a repeat adult volunteer at over 25 Challenge Day programs at numerous secondary schools in metro Detroit as well as a one-on-one tutor for grade school children at Timbuktu Academy of Science and Technology in east Detroit.

MenTEEs: T-shirts for a Cause Kicks Off January 1, 2012

DETROIT — Empowered Flower Girl LLC announces its second annual National Mentoring Month Campaign “MenTEEs: T-shirts for a Cause.”

During National Mentoring Month in January 2012, the company will dedicate a special section on its website (and social media pages) to mentoring.

Rasheda Kamaria, chief empowering officer and founder, said Empowered Flower Girl will feature youth mentoring organizations during the month-long observance.

As part of the campaign, one organization or school group will be randomly selected to be the recipient of 25% of all  Empowered Flower Girl t-shirt sales through Feb. 15, 2012. The organization will be notified on or before February 20, 2012. 

Our goal is to bring awareness to the need for positive adult role models for youth,” Kamaria said. “We want to help spread the word about organizations that empower, encourage and engage young people.”

 

Get your shirt today at http://www.shop.empoweredflowergirl.com.

Thanks for giving this holiday season

As you’re preparing decadent feasts and decorating your homes in colors of the season, remember those in your communities and families who may be in need. Empowered Flower girl encourages everyone from tweens to seniors to give back in some way. Doing for others is a great way to express your own gratitude.

 

Speaking of gratitude, we’d like to thank you for your continued support. We’re gearing up for great things in 2012 and hope you’ll be there to be a part of it.

 

Remember to support small businesses this holiday season. Whether you’re looking for deals Black Friday or on Cyber Monday, Empowered Flower Girl is hooking you up with discounts and special gifts.

 

In fact, we’ll offer specials through the end of the year!

 

Again, we appreciate you and look forward to connecting in some way.

 

Happy Holidays,

 

Rasheda Kamaria

Empowered Flower Girl

The joy of giving: Paying it forward with passion and purpose

There are so many things that the world needs. One of the most important is you. You have the ability to make this world a better place. Sure you’re young and not yet eligible to hold most political offices, but politicians aren’t the only folks who make a difference. You can make an important contribution to this planet even as a teenager.

When I was a child, I’d heard adults say things like “children should be seen and not heard.” Get real!

You have the power to change the world and all it takes is the courage to speak up for yourself and your community. If you are passionate about an issue, don’t be afraid to take action.

Give and receive

As we move into the holiday season, think about what you can do to make it a joyful time for others. Some say it is better to give than receive. I believe that when you give, you also receive. Studies (real ones from psychologists and other official folks) have found that people who do for others are much happier in life. Additionally, students who are active in their communities and those who volunteer their time do better in school.

There are numerous ways to give back. Organizations always need money, but if your allowance and part-time job don’t afford you the opportunity to be philanthropic, consider volunteering your time for a worthy cause.

Passion and purpose

Volunteer with organizations that reflect the issues and activities you care about the most. Are you an animal enthusiast? Many animal shelters need help with clerical work and cleaning. Passionate about saving the planet? Start a “green” program at your school or pitch in to clean up a neighborhood park.

There are thousands of causes, charities and issues in which to get involved. Websites like Idealist.org and Volunteermatch.org are great resources to help you find opportunities that touch, move and inspire you to take action.

My gift to you is this blog entry. Hopefully it empowers you to pay it forward and make this holiday season one to remember.

Moguls in the making: Support for aspiring teenpreneurs available

Becoming a multimillionaire or launching a profitable business enterprise was once seen as something that people did in their 30s and 40s. Now, more and more teens are starting successful corporations, small businesses and social ventures.

Internet entrepreneurs like Facebook’s Mark Zuckerberg or What Ever Life’s Ashley Qualls, who launched her site at 17, are proof that you don’t have to wait until you graduate college – or high school for that matter – to pursue your passion. And these days, you don’t have to do it alone. There are numerous organizations that offer training to aspiring moguls.

The Young Entrepreneur Series (Y.E.S.), based in the Detroit area, recently announced its new Future CEO Leaders program designed to teach teen girls about business, leadership, philanthropy and social responsibility through self-empowerment. Registrations are being accepted for the six-month program through Oct. 15, 2011.

Empowered Flower Girl spoke with global business consultant and Y.E.S. Executive Director Tonya McNeal-Weary about how she got started and how she’s helping girls realize their entrepreneurial potential.

What was your first job ever?

My first job was actually working for my cousin as a receptionist at a tire repair shop.  I was 18 years old.

When did you know you wanted to be an entrepreneur?

I realized I wanted to become an entrepreneur and run my own business when I was about 20 years old.  I have always liked the idea of being my own boss.

Who was your business mentor growing up?

I didn’t have any formal mentoring relationships growing up; however I had role models whom I looked up to.  Having a mentor or a positive role model can be very helpful as you are deciding on career options, or maybe looking to decide what path to take for your future.

Teens hear every day that when they graduate jobs will be hard to find, what can a young person do now to prepare for their future career?

The reality is that jobs are more scarce than ever before – making the few jobs that are available more competitive.  I would encourage young people today to invest in a good college education, seek additional opportunities including internships, study abroad programs, and learning a foreign language.  This would make them more competitive in today’s job market.  I would also encourage young people to turn their unique talents and hobbies into a business of their own.  Help to create jobs and rebuild our economy.

What advice would you give to a girl thinking of starting a business or nonprofit?

I would advise her to never give up on her dream.  Starting a business is not easy.  You have to have drive and dedication.  Having a good mentor can really be beneficial as well.  Definitely take advantage of various resources available to entrepreneurs. There are many agencies and organizations that offer free and low-cost services to assist new entrepreneurs.  There are risks that come with entrepreneurship but as with any other investment – the greater the risk, the greater the reward. 

 

 

 

 

Not in Detroit? Not a problem. There are numerous groups throughout North America that offer leadership training, tips, news and other resources for aspiring business owners. Google it! Or check out these sites:

Small Business Associationhttp://www.sbaonline.sba.gov/teens/

Entrepreneur Onlinehttp://www.entrepreneur.com/tsu

Elevator Pitchhttp://www.elevatorpitch2011.com/

Young Entrepreneurhttp://www.youngentrepreneur.com/

 

 

Explore the arts and get educated on everything fun, cool and smart in southeast Michigan

Empowered Flower Girl invites you to visit our booth during the 2001 Metro Parent Education Expo from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. on Sunday, Sept. 25 at the Detroit Institute of Arts. Babies, kids, teens and grownups are invited to attend the free event. Like us on Facebook or follow us on Twitter to receive a special fans only gift at the expo.

Parents: Be sure to stop by our area to sign up for our e-list for exclusive promos, news and events.

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Kumon is the world’s largest after-school math and reading enrichment program. Kumon unlocks the potential of children so they can achieve more on their own. It allows students of all ages and abilities to build the skills necessary to have a richer, more successful educational experience. Visit www.kumon.com/royal-oak.

 

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Girls pursue STEM education at Detroit's Wayne State University

By Rasheda Kamaria

Girls can do anything. From sports and law enforcement to science and construction, women are making advances in fields once dominated by the fellas. But there is still work to be done. According to the U.S. government, women hold less than 25% of the nation’s jobs in science, technology, engineering and mathematics (STEM) fields.

Wayne State University in Detroit is reaching out to girls to increase their awareness and competence in related areas of study.

The College of Education’s GO-GIRL (Gaining Options-Girls Investigate Real Life) program, designed to promote interest in STEM related careers and to boost mathematics skills and confidence in seventh-grade girls, is accepting applications through Dec. 1, 2011, for the winter 2012 semester.

The 10-week Saturday program, hosted by the College of Education, will launch January 28 and culminate with graduation ceremonies April 28. GO-GIRL, which is held on Wayne State’s main campus, is free and open to a limited number of seventh-grade female students.

Elise Lowell, 18, is a GO-GIRL alumna and current honors program student at Wayne State. Lowell is studying biology and hopes to pursue a career in research and academia.

“GO-GIRL was an excellent introduction into the science fields,” said Lowell, a Grosse Pointe South High School graduate. “It was a great way to meet peers interested in the same subjects and get acquainted with Wayne State’s campus. The experience was definitely beneficial; even waking up early on Saturday mornings was helpful to set a precedent of being a hard working student.”

Parents and students interested in the program should visit http://www.gogirls.wayne.edu/ and download the application forms.

STEM related sites and resources for girls and women across the country:

National Girls Collaborative Project: http://www.ngcproject.org/

Girls In Tech: http://www.girlsintech.net/

Girls Go Tech (Girls Scouts): http://www.girlsgotech.org/default.asp

Zoey’s Room: http://www.zoeysroom.com/

Focus on the Positive this School Year

This article is courtesy Kumon Math & Reading Centers
 
 
After a summer spent outside on exciting vacations or at summer camp, your child may be feeling a little pessimistic about losing summer freedoms in the new school year. While it is natural to feel anxiety about upcoming change, you can help your child cultivate a positive outlook as the first day of school approaches.
 
Listen
If your child starts to express negative thoughts, stop and listen. Repeat back what you have heard and dig a little deeper by asking questions. It is important not to trivialize what your child is thinking or feeling; by helping him or her understand his or her feelings, you can help him or her overcome any negativity. Your active listening and engaged questions will help your child to feel safe, loved and more receptive to your suggestions.
 
Redirect
When the grass isn’t greener in your child’s mind, remind him or her of a time that something felt scary but turned out well in the end. Help your child remember past successes and remind him or her of the fun and familiar parts of school, such as seeing old friends and favorite teachers. Sadness and fear are transitory feelings that can be overcome with a trip down confidence lane.
 
Model 
The best thing you can do for your child is model an optimistic outlook. When faced with a stressful or unknown situation, put on your rose-colored glasses. Use humor to deal with difficult situations, talk about failure as a learning opportunity and allow your child the freedom to make mistakes. After all, you will be there to help cultivate a positive attitude when life’s challenges come along!
 
Biology plays a role in determining a person’s natural outlook, but parenting has the power to create a deeper positive perspective that will reduce stress and boost confidence throughout your child’s life. By being responsive to your child’s thoughts and feelings, reminding him or her of past successes and demonstrating positive coping strategies with optimistic thinking, you can prepare your child for a new school year.